Saturday, May 13, 2006

Is it difficult to forgive?..


Hey, there is no formal school, teaching us how to forgive... Sometimes I wish there would be one :)
... It can be difficult to forgive, I have seen and have heard how not being able to forgive destroys friendships, relationships, ruins families... I see how not being able to forgive builds wall between people who used to be close...

I want to share with you what my friend wrote that really stroke my way of thinking!!!
She said: "It is very easy to forgive when you stop thinking how much it hurts for you & start thinking how much it hurts for the other..."

5 comments:

Kristina said...

Good words, ah?:) But it's so hard to forget yourself... because the pain is so piercing...

Lora said...

a, taigi tu pati juos parašei, slapuke :)

jo, tiesiog atiduok visa į Viešpaties rankas..

Kristina said...

as esislepiu, tik noriu, kad visi suprastu, ka parasiau:P

Lora said...

to forgive, you mean? ;)

well, not for me, it's not difficult for me to forgive myself...
maybe because i do love & care, but i know that without God i am weak & when/if i hurt people, i didn't mean it...
and probably because I know that God forgives me...

Kristina said...

no, I mean, to forget: to forget your pain, to forget your wounds, and try to look at another person, at her(or his) situation as well.